Settling in
Starting care is a bigger moment for you than it is for anyone else in the room, and we plan for that. Nothing here is a rule — it's what usually works, and we'll shape it around your child.
The first fortnight
We start with two short visits where you stay — an hour or so each, enough to meet the educators, find the bathroom, and let your child discover the mud kitchen while you're still there. Then a half day, then a full day. Most children are settled by the end of the second week; some take longer, and that is genuinely fine.
What we'll tell you
You'll get a message mid-morning on the first few days — not a cheerful nothing, the actual picture. If your child cried for twenty minutes and then went out to the garden, that's what we'll say. If it was a hard day, we'll say that too, and what we tried.
What to bring
Gumboots, a spare set of clothes that can get properly muddy, and anything that helps at sleep time — a comforter, a particular blanket. Meals, nappies, wipes and sunscreen are all included, so there's nothing else to pack.
I was ready for a fortnight of tears. What I got was a photo at ten past nine of her elbow-deep in the worm farm, and a message saying she'd asked where I was twice and then forgotten.
Renae, Ivy's mum